Couples therapist & Affair recovery specialist

Why work with me instead of "just any" couples therapist?

It's an open secret amongst therapists that most are trained for individual work and then "add couples." I don't. I'm a specialist couples therapist focused on affair recovery and trust repair. You won't get polite conversations and guesswork – you'll get a clear, structured process, direct leadership, and practical steps that change what happens between you.

Imago Relationship Therapy — where change actually happens

I use Imago Relationship Therapy, a structured, internationally recognised approach that turns conflict into connection. Instead of fighting to be heard you'll learn to listen in a way that heals. We move beyond blame and defensiveness into understanding, empathy, and practical repair. It's not theory - it's a method you can take home and use every day.

You don't have to take my word for it

Therapy is private. That's one reason many couples don't want their name attached to a public review explaining that their relationship survived an affair or that they came close to separating.

Where clients have chosen to share their experience anonymously, those stories can help you understand what the work actually feels like rather than relying on polished claims about what therapy is supposed to do.

Your relationship won't change by repeating the same moves

If the two of you keep returning to the same fight, the same distance or the same unanswered questions, waiting usually doesn't create a new pattern. Doing something different can. Whether you're trying to understand what happens after an affair, wondering if trust can return, or simply exhausted by the way you now relate to each other, we can start by looking clearly at where you are.

You don't have to know where the relationship will end up before you begin. You just need to be willing to find out what becomes possible when the pattern stops making the decisions for you.